Love and life

I once said in a post (Beyond goals and achievements: The true missing piece) that I forgot to cherish my life beyond academic achievements. It's true but I also believe it's understandable. Academic success has always been my biggest goal. At the time, I saw it as the challenge I had to face right in front of me and undeniably, I was deeply focused on it. 

Pursuing higher education is incredibly challenging. It's not just about gaining knowledge. It includes so many other things, especially when you're living abroad.

It's not uncommon to see others facing the same struggles. Uncertainty, disappointment, exhaustion… I think everyone who walks this path experiences those moments in their own way.

But looking back, I'm grateful I built a strong foundation during those years. As someone once said:

“When you're in a dark place, you might think you've been buried but actually, you've been planted.” Or simply: “When you're in the darkest place, the only way out is up.”

I've overcome challenges that once felt like the heaviest weight on my shoulders. Through those experiences, I've learned how to better understand and manage my emotions.

Now, problems in romantic relationships don't feel as overwhelming, because I trust in my ability to handle them. The experiences I've gained from some of the toughest times in my life have prepared me to navigate relationships with greater clarity and strength. I've developed the emotional resilience to cope and the wisdom to know what's truly worth investing in.

Sometimes, I wonder what is it that I'm actually looking for in love? Is it to feel less lonely? Is it the desire to live life in a different setting, with someone beside me? Or am I simply following what's considered “normal”? Maybe all of these are true. And maybe, I'll only find the real answer when I find love. One thing I do know: love is also a challenge one I'm willing to face. Because I desire something real, something meaningful, something that brings out the best in me and in the other person.

I still want to pursue my academic achievements. There are higher mountains waiting for me, and I know the journey won't be easy. Because if I don't, I'll never know how high I can reach, or how far I can go. One thing I know for sure: I would regret it if I didn't try.

Sometimes, I may need to take a detour, moving slower than others. But this time, I'll prepare more carefully than before, doing everything I can to minimize the risks along the way.

PS. Monsters University is one of my favorite animated movies. I actually see myself in Mike LOL. I really resonate with his determination, big dreams, and the way he keeps going no matter what. I had a post dedicated just to him.


Beside I like Shaun the Sheep, The Fox and the Hound, Peppa pig, Oliver and Company  etc.




Hanoi, June 13, 2025

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