That I did not plan for

Finally, I am officially able to get a Master's degree in Korea. First, congratulations to myself for not giving up.

However, things are going that I did not plan for.

I planned that I would have an excellent journey with outstanding achievements.

I planned that I would get very good support from Professor and lab mates.

But instead,

I was struggling with every single thing from my emotions, my overthinking to my doubts.

I did not get a good performance as my peers obtained.

That's right. I had an over-simple view. I didn't plan for progress but only results. I believed what others showed based on my personal thoughts. I did not have a careful overview of all situations that could happen.

Maybe, these are the lesson I have to learn this time. And, maybe "THAT IS NOT A FAILURE"

"It didn't go wrong. It just didn't go the way I wanted it to go. We are conditioned to believe that we don't achieve exactly what we set out to do exactly the way we envisioned it. That is a failure"

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ow-0P3SyZpM

                                                                                                                             Seoul, January 19th, 2024


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