My opinions about love, personally!

Hey there. Please allow me to show a couple of opinions about love between man and woman individually.

1) Love is to find great and wonderful things in closeness, small things between two people.

We cannot date everyone in the world to figure out who we fall in love with. Therefore, we might like and fell for someone by her or his appearance and personality traits. And then, we build happiness together by acceptance, forgiveness, etc.

P.S: Be enjoyable, grateful, and respectful of your current relationship. Let build together, no need to find elsewhere.

2) I believe in love at first sight but not a forever love.

Love, at first sight, can be explained similarly mentioned in remark 1. However, to me, a forever love doesn't exist. Why? 

Why do people have a new relationship after a break-up? You can tell me that you can probably have a new person but you still remember or love your ex. I think it is just the emotion of your past memory and everyone has got that feeling. Even it is right, so it is not fair with your new. Love is to go together ultimately. If you cannot be with someone to the end, it is not a true love and should find another more suitable.
But I do believe a true love that can last forever. How to make it last? To me, it is the commitment between two people.

P.S. Not too sad or too depressed when you are not able to be longer in a relationship with someone. You can find someone else and fall in love again. 
If she or he is a good person, you can become friends. If not, just remember lessons and forget them. Don't blame yourself too much, keep a stable and peaceful attitude.
That is all my thought. What do you think?   


P.S: Some people advise me how to find, what I should change to have a boyfriend after a long time of forever available. 

I would say that probably that advice is right, however, at first, they should make sure that I know what love is? What is the role of man and woman in love? What makes them attractive to each other? and so on. Therefore, I can make my own decision and consider that what I should do or change.
Believe it or not, I didn't even know what love is even though I watched lots of romantic movies until recently. How ironic!
In my opinion, it is only because I didn't really pay attention to find out and also, I just do whatever I want. That is it. What a lifelong learning!
I always feel that I know something more slowly than others regard of basic things in life. Anyway, I'd give to myself a message that perhaps helps me catch up with people.
Whenever you are curious about something, you wanna know why people do it, try to figure it out as soon as possible in this way or another. Don't just think personally
 
Nha Trang, July 08, 2021

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