Journey of the mind

I've been someone who was really strict with myself, always holding high standards. But over time, I've realized that being too hard can become a barrier --- one that limits both my potential and my joy. I've learned it's better to recognize small achievements and build from them gradually and patiently. Real strength is knowing when to soften, to allow space for mistakes, for learning, for growth, and for simply being human. It's not just an ideal in theory, but a practice in reality, the ability to live it, not just imagine it. It means believing that I can still reach my goals, even if the path is slower, messier, or more gentle than I once imagined. Still, there are parts of me I will not bend, especially in love. When it comes to relationships, I carry a different kind of firmness. I'm willing to growing with someone, to learning together but I stay grounded in a few core rules: 1. It is all or nothing.  I don't do halfway. I want depth, presence, and r...

The most recent film I watched was  When life gives you tangerines   (directed by Kim Won Seok).  It's been a long time since I fully watched a Korean drama --- maybe four years. The last one I remember finishing was   My name . It was such a good movie and I definitely recommend it. In between, I've only come across short review clips with humorous storytelling while scrolling during my free time. When I was a kid, Korean and Chinese dramas were part of my daily life. As I grew older, I watched them less often --- I'm still familiar with the structure, the emotions depth, the way characters are built and stories unfold.  I've always admired how Korean dramas about: Express emotions with such detail, especially in romance  where every word, every silence, every glance matters. Cast natural actors who become their characters Know how to weave in culture, beauty, and meaning through storytelling --- from breathtaking scenery to heartfelt OSTs. ...

  I don't know what the future holds. I am fear But I do know one thing: I want my relationship to last --- until death do us part. And I believe it can. Here's what I think truly matters: The core values of each individual Each of us holds strong inner values.  We are committed in heart, in action, in every season of life.  We keep our word.  What we say, we mean.  What we promise, we follow through on.  We uphold our values in every situation. We nurture a genuine connection. This bond is built on truth, heartfelt presence, and shared vulnerability. Two souls meeting in honesty, growing closer until two become one --- not by losing themselves, but by loving each other fully. We shared a future We build a life together one where we both belong, and both our dreams matter. A future where we don't just fit in --- we fit together . There is mutual respect. We honor and and stay open to finding joy in each other's hobbies, interests, and d...

#76. I always have a lot to talk about I always have things to talk about with people I feel comfortable with. I think it's because I notice the details that others might overlook, and those details are often important and interesting to me. #77. Holding a pencil and holding a pipette #78. It was inspiring Today, I attended a workshop at my company.  I had the chance to listen to my boss present our work, and it was incredibly inspiring. Her confidence and intelligence stood out, and the way she explained the contribution of the work --- not only within our team but also to the field of technology as a whole --- was truly eye-opening. In that moment, I was once again reminded of how small I am in the vast landscape of knowledge. There's still so much for me to learn. Yet, I felt deeply motivated. I've always believed that my career is a promising journey, and this experience renewed my drive to work even harder. Although the path is extremely challenging, I know deep down...

The title A Girl Goes Looking for Love immediately caught my attention, sparking curiosity about the journey it promises. Flipping through the chapters, I found it to be a beautiful and heartfelt yet strong exploration of love. Additionally, I can sense the author's intelligence in capturing attention through simplicity while conveying deep meaning. The book isn't too thick, with a lovely cover and interesting illustrations that add a unique touch. Holding it, I could feel the high-quality which made me more excited. After reading a few pages, I found it to be both authentic and engaging. I decided to buy it, hoping to gain valuable takeaways as I continued reading. This book kept me hooked from start to finish, completely immersed in the character's story. It blends  real-life situations with imaginative touches, skillfully weaving together elements of self-help and fantasy.  This feels both relatable and inspiring --- grounded in reality, yet elevated by creativi...

  (I captured the screenshot in Posthaven , the blogging platform) Just write --- not with the burden of perfection or the weight of procrastination, but with the courage to begin. Step by step, word by word, move toward the goals. But writing is not just writing. It's more than that. I want to share with you a personal story. In high school, I didn't often score highly in lectures, and I used to think that with my authentic literary sense, I should have earned better grades compared to a friend of mine who scored exceptionally high. Even though I didn't see much difference between our work. The truth is I never truly compared our pieces.  Back then, maybe I felt my authenticity was overlooked by the grades I received. Perhaps I sought recognition from my teachers, hoping they would understand and appreciate my perspective.  Maybe I was just a young girl rushed into competition.  But years later, I've come to understand my abilities without needin...

All journeys have given me lasting memories. Some have taught me to be fearless. Others reminded me to tread carefully. Many roads have shown me that quiet observations along the way can unexpectedly shape my perspective. Some whispered that paradise exists --- fleeting, yet unforgettable. A few came with discomfort, reminding me that unease is part of the experience too. Some brought new friends, gently woven into the chapters of my story. There was a journey reminded me why I returned to Vietnam after years of studying abroad. Another taught me that no matter where I live, true fulfillment must begin within. Hanoi, May 11, 2025