Insights from a street interview
Motivated by these videos linked below, I play an interviewee down the street and answer the questions.
80 Year Olds Share Their BIGGEST Mistakes
S. How old are you?
Q. I am 29
S. What does it feel like to be 29?
Q. It feels fine. I am smarter than before, calmer, have some achievements I am proud of. My personality feels fully developed. But there is still uncertainty --- career, relationships and the future in general. Even so, I keep going with the foundation I have built.
S. What is a big mistake that you made, or big regret that you have that you learn valuable lesson from?
Q. The biggest regret is saying hurtful thing to my mom. It made me realize we often more patient with strangers than family members who love us the most. I learned to be careful with my words and take better care of my family. Once spoken, words can’t be taken back.
S. When you look at 20s or somethings of today, what one thing you don't like about them.
Q. So many people create short, viral videos for entertainment and gaining massive attention with thousands of likes and views. I feel like a lot of videos lack meaning and depth.
S. If you could give one piece of advice to someone younger than you, what would you say?
Q. Have a dream to pursue. The journey toward a goal becomes the foundation on which you build every aspect of your life. It keeps you motivated and stay strong through challenges.
S. What is something that when we were younger, we tend to prioritize, but when we get older, isn't that important?
Q.
1. Competing with peers and others --- if you don't achieve something what others do at the same pace. It simply means your conditions and abilities are not enough at that moment. Keep working on it, you will get there eventually. Even if it happens late, it still will be beautiful.
2. Trying to fit in --- I've realize that I don't need to fit into every group or condition. What matters most is staying true to what’s important to me.
S. If you could go back in time, knowing what you know today, and give one piece of advice to your younger self?
Q. Nothing wrong with you, you are truly unique. Trust your uniqueness has value. Work harder and keep moving forward --- you will figure it out.
S. What is the biggest risk that you took in your life and you learned a big lesson from?
Traveling alone to Laos, Cambodia, Singapore and Malaysia. I planned all things myself and faced some unsafe situation along the way.
In Laos, I woke up too early in the morning to watch the monk begging for food. I found myself alone in the dark and empty street, searching for them. You know what, monks hadn't woke up yet then I had to wait for them for a while.
In Malaysia, I was tricked and lost some money. The next day, I was searching for a bus stop and ended up in a complex street with crowded people whose culture felt different from mine. I was scared but still kept going until I finally found the bus station.
It taught me that no fear of taking risk but being well-prepared is essential. Go for it--- but be smart about it.
But perhaps the biggest risk I will take is choosing a long-term partner. Unlike my life so far, that involves someone else too.
Hanoi, February 06, 2025
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